Words have destructive aspects. Ignoring or deflecting insults and abuses is far wiser than combating each slight made against us. We need to follow King David's example of holding his peace (exercising patience and longsuffering) against Shimei when he had all the resources of retaliation at his disposal. We must learn to forgive and forget, wiping the slate clear every day. When we forgive others, God sees His behavior reflected in us and gives us peace.