sermon: A Heritage and a Reward
Parent and Child Responsibilites
Martin G. Collins
Given 26-Dec-15; Sermon #1301; 74 minutes
Martin Collins illustrates the horrible degradation of this society because of the abandonment of the Fifth Commandment, insists that God intended children to be a heritage and a reward to those who obey His Law. American society is cursed because the family, its most important component, is dysfunctional. It is impossible to raise families without God. Gentile societies have historically demonstrated subhuman treatment to both women and children; Modern Israel apparently wants to follow suit by murdering 3,000 children per day, with 1.09 million unborn children annually. Last week, the largely reprobate American Congress voted to fund the guilty murderers on a grand scale, an act even natural law would regard as patently inhumane. Children have two duties to their parents: to obey them (in the Lord) and to honor them. The parent (ideally) is to serve as a representative of God to the child. Cursing parents in the Old Covenant was a capital offense. Honor goes far beyond obedience. The parent is expected to teach children in a restrained and balanced way, not embittering, provoking, irritating, harassing, and not breaking the spirit of the child. Parents must remember that customs change, that trust trumps control, and that children need encouragement. Sons must be prepared for leadership, being encouraged to offer suggestions in family meetings. Aubrey Andelin offers fathers positive suggestions as to conducting family meetings and communicating. (1) Stop all activities and give full attention to the children. (2) Listen carefully, even if not in agreement. (3) Be understanding and express sympathy for their ideas. (4) Tell them you will think about their suggestion. (5) Praise their ideas as useful and important contributions even if you are not able to agree with, or implement, them. As parents, our mandate is to bring children up in the understanding of the Lord's will, largely by our own positive example.
Children as the gift of God Children are their own people Colossians 3:21 Cursing parents Deuteronomy 21:18-21 Ecclesiastes 10:13 Ephesians 5:2-33; 6:1-4 Exodus 20 Family as the basic unit of society Freeloading off parents I John 3:10-16 Gentile attitudes about parenthood Hilarion Holding grudges Honor parents as one honors God James 5:16 Kabbed Luke 12: 51-53 Man of Steel and Velvet: A Guide to Masculine Development Natural law Obey parents in the Lord Parent children relationships Planned Parenthood Proverbs 22:15; 31:28-29 Psalm 22:4 127:1-5 Respect Roman government and child rearing Romans 1:30 ; 13:7 II Corinthians 3:2 Spoiled Brats Complain About Christmas Gifts Subhuman treatment of women and children Ungrateful whiners