What the Bible says about Going to Our Brother
(From Forerunner Commentary)

Matthew 18:15 What should we do when we think we see a problem? God is very clear on the procedure. Matthew 18:15 says we should go to our brother, alone, privately. Discuss the concern with him and him alone. These steps work to correct problems that sometimes occur—if they are followed. We know what to do, but we do not always practice what we know. Our focus should always be on solving the problem, not just talking about it, condemning it, or gossiping about it. Get as few people involved in the matter as possible—in fact, no one else needs to know about it unless it escalates. Concentrate on the matter at hand and do not bring up bygones. Do not burn any bridges or threaten the other with ultimatums. Remember that you are trying to gain your brother, not lose him! Staff Confessions of a Finger-Pointer Related Topics: Arguing | Burning Bridges | Conflict Resolution | Correcting Others | Correction | Diplomacy | Going to Our Brother | Gossip | Problems, Solving | Strife

Matthew 18:15 Matthew 18:15 instructs us to deal honestly with a brother over an offense, and not to tell it to others. This is also a great challenge. When irritated or offended, the first thing we want to do is to talk about it! We want to receive encouragement, comfort, understanding, or just get it off our chests. It is critical, though, for us to temper our honesty with the loving attributes of God's Spirit, and solve our differences with words that heal, encourage, and enable greater affection to grow. Honesty may at times require forgiveness and forbearance that neglect and lying might let slide by. Staff Are You Sharp-Tongued? (Part Two) Related Topics: Conflict | Conflict Resolution | Diplomacy | Encouragement | Forbearance | Forgiveness | Going to Our Brother | Offending a Brother | Offending by Words | Offenses, Dealing with

 

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