Ephesians 4:25-32

Now this list is not just a list, if you notice, of what not to do, but tells us what we should be doing. Not only does Paul say, do not lie, he says, speak the truth. If you get angry, do not sin and make sure you get over it before sunset. Do not steal. And not only do not steal, but get a job so you can help others. Go to work! Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but what is good and may impart grace to the hearers. Do we impart grace?

Ephesians 4:31-32

Paul is saying true kindness arises from our spiritual transformation and submission to God, especially in challenging situations. Kindness for God's called is not optional, brethren. It is a necessary response to the forgiveness and compassion that we have all received from Him. Kindness is not something that is earned. It is freely given as a fruit of God's Spirit.

Ephesians 4:30-32

Do you know what that actually says in the Greek? It says "Be sweet." Be sweet to one another and tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ also forgave you.